Most men are seriously broken/ and women not to far behind them

Ok ladies. This isn't going to be one of those politically correct blogs or how wonderful life is at 50. The fact of the matter is, is it sucks getting older and seeing men using women like they are dish rags.

I know not all men are like that and perhaps it is just my perspective, but I really feel like Mom's who have male children have done their male children wrong. For that matter Male or Female because "YOU ARE THE ROLE MODEL OF WHAT YOUR CHILDREN SEE AS BEHAVIORS THEY COPY"  If it isn't that they have done everything for them, they didn't do enough in a way that developed a healthy picture of what, where and how a woman should be treated. Most men look at their mothers and if their fathers were assholes and their mothers door mats, guess what, yeah these men grow up thinking it is okay not to have to put any effort into being loving, caring, considerate or think of anyone other than themselves. Now we have generations of these slugs that have no idea how to treat a woman. Not that all women are looking for someone with class, style etc. but come on already. I was just realizing how many young males are being taught by their mothers that it is ok to not communicate. "Oh he's just like my or his dad". Oh he's just a loner, he is shy. He only speaks if he has something to say. You know what! Bullshit! male children need to be taught when someone speaks to them they need to not only speak back but engage. They also need to learn how to make eye contact. It's called participating. It isn't to say they have to be phoney but they do need to be taught social skills instead of saying it's okay to not learn how to participate or engage. That is a common thread now of these old men who are getting booted by their women because the women are tired of the neglect, the lack of effort to work on the relationship. I know this goes both ways.

Yes I know men only have one side of their brain. Again lets go ahead and justify and make excuses for these people. Then when they've been divorced about 3 times or are with the same person cause the woman is as broken as he is and afraid and not trusting of her own abilities to make it on her own stay in the relationship and continue to allow a diminished capacity just to keep the peace. Where is the LOVE?!

I see so much of that on these dating sites. I get hits from men with Winks. It's like that is the all of their ability to communicate. I guess I am supposed to role over and drop em for that!  I guess that is suppose to be impressive. Then when you wink back, he winks again, then you do it again and those go on and on. It's insanity I tell you! I had one today that I  had to pull information out of him just to get him to tell me what he wanted out of the website. OMGosh! If in the book Women are from venus and Men are from Mars(incidentally biased and written by a man) As the author states men need to feel needed, well if they are willing to put anything into, how they Hell is a women going to know how to do that.

The selection on these sites are horrible at best. I have met some men but for me it is narrowed even more. I know at times I think, shit I should have put up with the silence, the lack of conversation, the inability show affection or sexual passion or just have a calm conversation with an adult instead a grown man going on 13 maybe.  Ok I am done. Maybe tomorrow I will feel differently but I don't think so. I think these website need to be exposed for what they are. And women need to know they are not alone. I am sure they know that. Shoot, you have these women who have it all and are really attractive and still after 1 year on there looking. Sacramento sucks for a quality selection of men that are single. Unless you are willing to just overlook them playing and not committing, not talking, not doing anything that their profile say's they like doing. Most are looking for you know what! That's Cool if that is what you want, but ladies protect yourself.! Ok I am done for tonite. Thank you for letting me get that off my chest.